Namings & Welcomings

In the lives of all human beings there are important events which call for a celebration. Since the earliest days of human communities the birth of children has been celebrated by parents, families and friends. In religious communities this has usually taken the form of a ceremony that bestows a name upon the child and that also recognizes that child’s place in the community.

Unitarians are not bound by religious rules and customs. We can devise a ceremony to suit the individual needs and wishes of the parents and family of the child. Parents are welcome to help in planning it. The ceremony may be called a Naming Service or a Welcoming although other names may be used such as a Dedication, Blessing, Thanksgiving or Baptism. Whichever name is chosen, what is important for
Unitarians is the commitment by the community as well as the parents – to offer the child love and support.

In the lives of all human beings there are important events which call for a celebration. Since the earliest days of human communities the birth of children has been celebrated by parents, families and friends. In religious communities this has usually taken the form of a ceremony that bestows a name upon the child and that also recognizes that child’s place in the community.

Unitarians are not bound by religious rules and customs. We can devise a ceremony to suit the individual needs and wishes of the parents and family of the child. Parents are welcome to help in planning it. The ceremony may be called a Naming Service or a Welcoming although other names may be used such as a Dedication, Blessing, Thanksgiving or Baptism. Whichever name is chosen, what is important for
Unitarians is the commitment by the community as well as the parents – to offer the child love and support.

where is the ceremony performed?

Usually, parents or guardians prefer the ceremony to be held in a Unitarian place of worship. This may not be appropriate, however, if there is no Unitarian community nearby or if the parents would prefer a different kind of setting. Some celebrations take place in the child’s home or in a hired building such as a
hotel. In good weather, they may be held in the open air, either in a garden or perhaps in a wood.

to whom is the ceremony available?

Unitarians enjoy the opportunity to celebrate new life and anyone is welcome to ask for a Unitarian celebrant to devise a ceremony for their child whatever their religious, cultural and racial background. The parents will not be asked to affirm anything they do not believe nor will they be compelled to join a Unitarian congregation. No pressure will be placed on them to explain their lifestyle or home life.

when are the ceremonies performed?